Medium Channel Clairvoyant
What is Selfishness?
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Selfishness is a beautiful, vibrant turquoise light that shines with awareness through a soul. Selfishness says, “I will do only what is in my higher self’s best interests. Period. No exceptions.” Before you panic, breathe and remember. You higher self wants what is best for you and the divine whole. You will still be loving, caring, nurturing, and responsible because that is what your divine self would want for you.
You will not feel trapped, out of control, and insecure. You will not feel resentful and unappreciated because everything that you strive to do will be based on what you need for you. What you will give will be given unconditionally because you choose to give for you. I know this is a leap and we have been taught to think of others first. This is an Ego based illusion.
I am not asking you to pull out of your life and
run away, nor to let down the ones that you love. That’s not what this
is all about. Your life is exactly as it should be, right this minute,
there has been no mistake. There is no such thing as a mistake.
Karma has placed you exactly where you need
to be for maximum learning and growth.
The key is to stop creating more Karma. You
release Karma the same way you release Ego.
The tools I am about to give you are powerful ones. They will change everything in your world if used correctly. The first step is one of choice and, at first, it sounds easy. After all, who wouldn’t want to ascend? But think. This involves sacrifice. You must sacrifice the Ego.
When you move toward a selfish based, rather than an Ego based, consciousness, you’re going to rub people the wrong way. Especially those closest to you. They expect you to react in certain ways and to need certain things. As you transform, they will have tough choices to make. Do they follow your lead, abandon you, or just feel insecure and defensive around you? You can help but ultimately it boils down to their ability to accept you for who you are. You will create hurt. Hurt is the soul’s way of knowing that there is an opportunity for learning here. How those close to you deal with that hurt and how they deal with you is their choice. How you deal with them will be your choice.
You are responsible for your own soul growth and for your own experience. (Each soul is.) Think about that for a moment. If you put off your soul growth for what you perceive to be the needs of others, you are putting off their opportunity for growth as well. As always, the choice is yours.
Can you put your soul before everything else? Can you accept that your personal soul growth is the greatest gift you give to this plane of consciousness?
Remember that we are all joined together and that as one person wakes up, he or she makes it easier for everyone else to do the same. This is important. Your rise in consciousness makes awareness for others possible. That’s why truth has always been such a feared thing for those struggling to maintain the status quo.
The question is a simple one. Do you trust in the universal plan enough to surrender to it? (This does not mean that you have to give up you life and go work as a psychic, massage therapist, or Reiki Master!) We need people in every walk of life waking up, transforming, so that others in our sphere of influence will begin to change as well. Growth is rarely comfortable, but we need strong leaders committed to change. There have to be examples that other people can follow. People need to relate to one another on basic levels. There has to be a similarity between me and you, for you to be an inspiration for me.
Don’t start this journey because you want to lead. That is the wrong reason. It has to be about you and God Source or it will never work. The desire to influence people is Ego based. I mention this only so you will understand how your processes will affect the whole.
Selfishness may, on the surface, appear to be only about you. This may offend some readers. But remember, we will never be complete until every last soul has returned home. Your soul growth is as important to me as my own. We each have free will and everyone’s experience is by choice. No matter how hard that may be for us to understand, it is the truth. We can only honour the choices people make, while being as much help to them as we can. Eventually, we will all make better choices.
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